Nearly a quarter-million children as young as 12 were married in the US between 2000 and 2010, mostly girls wed to adult men.
This is one of the shocking facts about child marriage in America that Unchained At Last’s Fraidy Reiss reveals in an op-ed article published today on the front page of the Washington Post’s Outlook section. As of yesterday and into today, the article was one of the five most-read articles on the Post website.
Many of the children wed between 2000 and 2010 were married to an adult significantly older than they, the article shows. Some were married at an age, or with a spousal age difference, that constitutes statutory rape under their state’s laws.
“Despite these alarming numbers,” the article explains, “and despite the documented consequences of early marriages, including negative effects on health and education and an increased likelihood of domestic violence, some state lawmakers have resisted passing legislation to end child marriage.”
Read the full article here.
Unchained started and now leads a growing national movement to end child marriage in America. Unchained is working to pass legislation, state by state, to eliminate all marriage before 18, with no exceptions. New Jersey is closest to passing such a bill, while similar bills are pending in Massachusetts and Maryland.
To build support for this legislation, Unchained writes op-eds like the one published today in the Washington Post; hosts Chain-Ins to protest forced and child marriage; gives regular media interviews; and presents at conferences and other venues.
You can help end child marriage in America:
This time the exciting news is in Maryland, where Del. Vanessa Atterbeary just introduced a bill that Unchained and its ally, Tahirih Justice Center, helped to write. The bill would end all child marriage in Maryland, without exceptions.
In New Jersey, a similar bill Unchained helped to write is scheduled for a hearing Monday afternoon before the senate judiciary committee. Unchained will testify strongly in support, of course.
In Massachusetts, a similar bill Unchained and Tahirih helped to write was introduced two weeks ago.
If you live in one of those states, email your legislators and your governor here to urge them to pass the pending bills. Regardless of where you live, see below for ways you can join the growing national movement Unchained started, and now leads, to end child marriage in America.
Child marriage is a human-rights abuse that undermines girls’ health, education and economic opportunities and increases their risk of experiencing violence. Often, too, child marriage is forced marriage: Children can easily be forced into marriage or forced to stay in a marriage, because they face overwhelming legal and practical barriers if they try to leave home, access a shelter, retain an attorney or bring a legal action.
Yet, while most states set 18 as the minimum marriage age, exceptions in every state allow those under 18 to marry. In Maryland, children age 16 or 17 can marry if they have parental consent or if “the woman” is pregnant or has given birth, and children age 15 can marry if they have parental consent and “the woman” is pregnant or has given birth. However, Maryland has no process to ensure parental “consent” is not actually parental “coercion,” nor any process to ensure no statutory rape has occurred.
Shockingly, some 3,130 children were married in Maryland between 2000 and 2014 – mostly girls wed to adult men. Further, Maryland’s data shows more than five children “under 15” were married in that time period, without specifying just how young they were or how that could have happened, when marriage before 15 is illegal.
Unchained is working state by state to write, introduce and pass laws to eliminate all marriage before 18, with no exceptions. In Maryland, Del. Atterbeary introduced a bill to that effect last year, but the bill did not get enough support, and it died. Now Del. Atterbeary has reintroduced the bill as HB799.
Wherever you live, you can help end child marriage in America:
Both faced a forced marriage when they were teenagers. Both were shunned by their families when they rejected the marriage. Both women later founded nonprofit organizations to help other women and girls escape forced marriages.
One of the women is Fraidy Reiss, Unchained’s founder and executive director. The other is one of her role models, Jasvinder Sanghera, founder and CEO of Karma Nirvana in the UK.
Fraidy and Jasvinder share their surprisingly similar stories – from opposite sides of the Atlantic Ocean – in the latest episode of BBC’s The Conversation.
“I … was filled with this tremendous sense of gratitude,” Fraidy says of the day she realized she had survived her ordeal and rebuilt her life, and decided to found Unchained. “I thought, ‘Well, I made it. So many women and girls are still back where I was. How can I help them?'”
Hear the full episode here.
We just moved another step closer to ending child marriage in America.
Massachusetts Rep. Kay Khan and Sen. Harriette Chandler today introduced legislation we at Unchained At Last helped to write, similar to legislation we’ve written in other states. If you live in Massachusetts, email your legislators and the governor here to urge them to pass HD2205/SD974. If you live outside of Massachusetts, see below for ways you can help.
Child marriage is a human-rights abuse that undermines girls’ health, education and economic opportunities and increases their risk of experiencing violence. Often, too, child marriage is forced marriage: Children can easily be forced into marriage or forced to stay in a marriage, because they face overwhelming legal and practical barriers if they try to leave home, access a shelter, retain an attorney or bring a legal action.
Yet, while most states set 18 as the minimum marriage age, exceptions in every state allow those under 18 to marry. In Massachusetts, a court can approve the marriage of a child of any age, with the parents’ consent. As a result, nearly 1,200 children as young as 14 were married in Massachusetts between 2000 and 2014 – and 84 percent of them were girls wed to adult men.
Unchained has helped to write legislation in several states to end child marriage. In Massachusetts, HD2205/SD974 would eliminate all marriage before 18, with no exceptions. A companion bill, HD2263/SD975, would protect children at risk of being taken to another jurisdiction for a forced marriage.
Wherever you live, you can help end child marriage in America:
Do you have plans yet for September 10? How about a dinner cruise aboard a private yacht in the Hudson River, complete with an open bar, a DJ and a sunset over New York and New Jersey landmarks – all to benefit women fleeing forced marriages?
SAVE THE DATE!
Dinner on the River
September 10, 2017
5:30 p.m. to 9 p.m.
Embarking/disembarking in Weehawken, NJ
More details coming soon …
Once again, we at Unchained At Last are going to Chain-In to send a strong message to legislators: Stop child marriage.
Like before, we will wear bridal gowns and veils, chain our arms and tape our mouths. This time, we’ll Chain-In in Albany, on February 14. Will you join us?
Child marriage is a human-rights abuse that undermines girls’ health, education and economic opportunities and increases their risk of experiencing violence. Often, too, child marriage is forced marriage: Children can easily be forced into or trapped within a marriage, because they face overwhelming legal and practical barriers if they try to leave home, access a shelter, retain an attorney or bring a legal action.
Yet marriage before 18 is legal in all 50 U.S. states, and tens of thousands of children were married in the U.S. in the last decade. In New York, some 3,850 children as young as 14 were married between 2000 and 2010 – almost all of them girls wed to adult men.
Unchained has helped to write legislation in several states to end marriage before 18. One of those bills is advancing in New Jersey, but two of those bills – in New York and Maryland – died last year because legislators did not move on them.
New York Asw. Amy Paulin is about to re-introduce the bill to end child marriage in New York. Let’s show her our support. Let’s Chain-In to grab New York legislators’ attention and make sure they know we want them to pass the bill this time around.
Here’s what Unchained accomplished in 2016, under the leadership of founder/executive director Fraidy Reiss:
~ By year’s end, Unchained has helped or is helping more than 270 women and girls.
~ Fraidy is featured in the New York Daily News, on PBS NewsHour and Al Jazeera America, and by many other television, radio and print news outlets.
~ The bill Unchained helped to write to end child marriage advances in New Jersey, passing in the Assembly with not a single “no” vote – thanks to Unchained’s tireless advocacy. (The bills in New York and Maryland do not get enough support, and they die.)
~ Some 35 attorneys attend Unchained’s annual CLE course on family law, presented in partnership with Rutgers Institute for Professional Education. The course is free for attorneys who commit to representing an Unchained client pro bono.
~ More than 10,000 emails are sent as part of Unchained’s email campaign to legislators and governors, urging them to end child marriage.
~ Unchained hosts a Chain-In in Newark. Some 35 people wear bridal gowns and veils, chain their arms and tape their mouths to protest forced and child marriage.
~ Unchained hires its second staffer, a part-time Social Worker, and moves into a professional office (and out of the executive director’s home).
~ Fraidy is invited to speak about child marriage at a United Nations Commission on the Status of Women (CSW60) side event.
~ Fraidy is nominated for the prestigious DVF People’s Voice Award.
Thanks to Unchained At Last’s hard work, New Jersey today took a significant step closer to becoming the first US state to eliminate all marriage before 18.
The New Jersey assembly voted overwhelmingly to pass A3091, the bill Unchained helped to write that would end the human-rights abuse that is child marriage. The bill is still pending in the state senate.
“This is a huge win for girls and women across New Jersey,” said Fraidy Reiss, founder and executive director of Unchained, who spent much of the last several months building support for the bill. “But we can’t declare victory until the senate passes the bill and the governor signs it into law, making child marriage a problem of the past.”
New Jersey, like most US states, sets 18 as the minimum marriage age. After all, children can easily be forced into marriage or trapped in a marriage before they turn 18 and become legal adults. Also, the impacts of child marriage on a girl’s life are devastating enough that the State Department considers marriage before 18 a human-rights abuse.
However, like all states, New Jersey allows dangerous exceptions under which those under 18 can wed; state laws do not even specify an age below which a child cannot marry. Due to these exceptions, nearly 3,500 children as young as 13 were married in New Jersey between 1995 and 2012. Nearly all were girls married to adult men.
Unchained started a national conversation last year about America’s child-marriage problem, with an op-ed article published in the New York Times. Since that op-ed was published, Unchained has led the growing movement to end child marriage in every US state, by working with legislators in several states to write and pass legislation.
With today’s vote – in which seven assembly members abstained but not a single legislator voted no – New Jersey becomes the closest to passing a bill to end all child marriage. Asw. Nancy Munoz was the legislator who championed the bill in the assembly, and Sen. Nellie Pou is doing the same in the senate.
Read more here, including details about similar legislation in other states.
You get credit for this win if you joined the Chain-In in Newark that Unchained organized in July, where some 35 people, dressed in bridal gowns and veils, chained their arms and taped their mouths to protest child marriage.
You get credit if you submitted any of the more than 7,550 pre-filled emails to legislators that have been sent so far through Unchained’s email campaign. You get credit if you wrote one of the nearly 20 memos of support Unchained forwarded to the assembly judiciary committee, or if you testified with Unchained at a legislative hearing about A3091.
You get credit if you support Unchained financially. You get credit if you read and forward Unchained emails and like, share and retweet Unchained’s social media messages.
If this describes you, thank you. Well done.
Unchained At Last urges you to join the upcoming Chain-In to protest child marriage and forced marriage in New Jersey and across the US.
Be among the survivors, activists and supporters who will stand outside Newark Penn Station wearing bridal gowns and veils, with arms chained and mouths taped, to send a powerful message to legislators: Pass A3091, the bill to end child marriage in New Jersey.
Click here to read about Unchained’s past Chain-Ins.
Unchained is proud and grateful that the survivors, activists and allies who address the crowd at the the Chain-In will include:
Unchained also is proud and grateful that Girls Not Brides has granted permission for protesters at the Chain-In to sing “We Are Girls, Not Brides,” a haunting song written by girls in Zambia. Click on the image below to watch the girls in Zambia perform “We Are Girls, Not Brides.”
Child marriage – or marriage before age 18 – is a human-rights abuse that undermines girls’ health, education and economic opportunities and increases their risk of experiencing violence. Often, too, child marriage is forced marriage: Children can easily be forced into or trapped within a marriage, because they cannot easily access legal and other resources.
Yet child marriage is legal in all 50 U.S. states, and tens of thousands of children were married in the U.S. in the last decade. In New York alone, more than 3,850 children as young as 14 were married between 2000 and 2010.
And forced marriage happens to adults too, but the US has long lagged behind other countries in acknowledging and responding to this human rights abuse.
The solution? Let’s start by reserving marriage, a serious legal contract, for those who have reached the age of majority. Let’s Chain-In to grab the attention of policymakers and the public, and make sure lawmakers pass legislation to end child marriage.
Q: I don’t have a bridal gown and veil. What should I do?
A: No problem. Wear a white top, and indicate on your registration form that you want Unchained to provide you with a free veil and a “skirt” you can wear over your own clothing (and probably under your coat, assuming the weather will be cold).
Note: You are encouraged to wear a gown and veil regardless of your gender identity.
Q: I prefer not to wear bridal clothing and/or not to chain my arms or tape my mouth. May I still join the Chain-In?
A: Absolutely!
Q: Should I bring my own chains and tape?
A: No, do not bring your own chains and tape. Unchained will provide free plastic chains and tape that the Unchained team has found to be comfortable even on sensitive skin.
Q: Is this legal?
A: Yes, the Chain-In is completely legitimate. Unchained has the backing of the First Amendment, as well as approval from the New York Police Department.
Q: How much does it cost to join the Chain-In?
A: Nothing. Joining the Chain-In is free – but please consider donating to Unchained to help offset the cost of the Chain-In and to help women and girls across the US who are fleeing forced marriages.
Q: Where is the exact Chain-In location?
A: The Chain-In will be held outside Newark Penn Station, on Market Street. From inside the train station, exit toward Market Street Buses, between Track 4 and Track 5.
Q: What time does the Chain-In begin and end?
A: Please arrive at 11:30 a.m. to sign in and get into Chain-In attire. The actual Chain-In will begin at 12 p.m. and end by 1 p.m.
Q: Will the Chain-In proceed in case of bad weather?
A: The protest will proceed unless officials declare a state of emergency.
Q: How else can I help end child and forced marriage?
A: Whether or not you can join the Chain-In, please take these steps:
Some 35 attorneys attended today, as Unchained again gave its popular training course on family law, in partnership with Rutgers Institute for Professional Education. The course provided an overview of New Jersey matrimonial law, covering the major steps of the divorce process — from filing the complaint to addressing issues of equitable distribution, child custody, child support and alimony — with a focus on arranged/forced marriage and the legal and ethical issues involved.
*The course fee of $150 was waived for admitted attorneys who committed to representing an Unchained client pro bono as she flees from an arranged/forced marriage. (The course was worth 8 or more CLE credits in New Jersey and New York, and 6.5 credits in Pennsylvania.)
~ Ellen Gold, Esq. | Attorney at Law
~ Cary Cheifetz | Ceconi & Cheifetz, LLC
~ Rachel Cotrino | Law Office of Rachel S Contrino
~ Loredana Pantano | Law Office of Loredana G Pantano
~ Fraidy Reiss | Unchained At Last
Unchained thanks the Jewish Women’s Foundation of New Jersey for the generous grant that made this CLE course possible.
Meanwhile, click here to apply to join Unchained’s team of Pro Bono Attorneys, which will allow you to take the course for free.
Why should attorneys donate their time?
Attorneys who commit to representing an Unchained client pro bono receive:
~ Free access to this training course, worth significant CLE credits in NJ, NY and PA ($150 value)
~ Experience in matrimonial law
~ Mentoring from an experienced matrimonial law attorney
~ Valuable networking opportunities
~ Hours of service toward exemption from mandatory pro bono assignments
~ Unchained funds for expert witnesses and other court-related fees
~ The chance to unchain a woman or a girl from a marriage she did not choose
Attorneys with 5+ years of matrimonial law experience also can take advantage of these opportunities:
~ Mentor another attorney (counts in New Jersey as hours of service toward exemption from mandatory pro bono assignments)
~ Present a portion of an upcoming Unchained CLE course (earns double CLE credits in New Jersey)
