We know you are as determined as we at Unchained are to make sure every U.S. state passes legislation to ban child marriage. As you know, we lead the national movement to set each state’s marriage age at #18NoExceptions, and to date we have achieved historic legislative victories in seven states. Only 43 to go.

Here’s our roundup of the legislative — and legislator — battles we are fighting right now and how you can help us win each one:

First, let’s talk about the good bills. Right now, 10 states have pending legislation that would end all marriage before 18, without exceptions:

• We, along with allies, advocates and survivors, formed a coalition to end child marriage, met with every legislator, gathered written materials and testimony and testified at a joint judiciary committee hearing in favor of the bill to end child marriage in Connecticut. Lieutenant Governor Susan Bysiewicz is a strong supporter of the bill and held a press conference to urge legislators to pass the bill that we and our allies joined. Despite “concerns” from legislators about “hormone replacement surgery” (WTF?) — which not only isn’t a thing, but also has absolutely nothing to do with child marriage — the bill passed out of the committee and now moves on to the full house floor.
• After we testified — and formed a coalition, met with legislators, created written materials and gathered support from allies — in favor Vermont’s bill to end child marriage, it also passed the house and the senate judiciary committee. Now it goes to the full senate! (No questions about nonexistent medical procedures from this group.)
• Michigan lawmakers just re-introduced a bill package to end all marriage before 18, no exceptions — the fourth attempt in the state. We spoke at a press conference with legislators there earlier this month to announce the legislation and urge its passage. As in CT and VT, we and our allies also formed a coalition to end child marriage, met with state legislators, compiled written materials and gathered testimony. We feel good about the bill package’s chances this year.
• We also testified in favor of the bill to end child marriage in Washington, which passed the house unanimously (!!). It’s too late for the senate to pick the bill up this year, but it can pick it up when the session resumes in January.
• Maine’s bill to end child marriage is passed out of the joint judiciary committee after we testified in its favor and is now awaiting action in the house.
• Legislation to end child marriage also is pending in South Carolina, Illinois, Kansas, Hawaii and Texas, but those face more of an uphill battle.

Two more good bills died or were defeated in the legislature so far this session:

• A bill to end child marriage was defeated in the New Hampshire legislature in February. This is the fourth time NH legislators have defeated a bill to end child marriage resoundingly and immediately.
• New Mexico had strong legislation to end child marriage, thanks to our hard work. The bill as introduced would not have ended child marriage, but we convinced the bill sponsor to make it a strong bill that would have eliminated all marriage before age 18. Sadly, that bill died at the end of NM’s legislative session earlier this month.

Now let’s discuss the bad and ugly bills:

• A bill to end child marriage in West Virginia has had a disappointing trajectory: Initially, the bill left a dangerous loophole that would not have ended child marriage. But, thanks to our advocacy, the bill’s sponsor in the house proposed an amendment that would have ended all marriage before age 18. That amendment failed to pass in the senate judiciary committee, and the bill died. But it was resurrected and amended once again by the senate sponsor to set the minimum marriage age at 16, which does nothing to protect 16- and 17-year-olds — those most affected by child marriage. That version of the bill was signed into law — and many in WV and beyond are praising this as a victory! (Spoiler alert: It’s not. Solving the problem for 3% of the population isn’t solving the problem. #18NoExceptions). One legislator, a product of child marriage who called himself “the luckiest guy in the world,” voted against the bill, noting his mother married at 16 and, “six months later, [he] came along.”
• Wyoming also passed a useless bill this year, which set the minimum marriage age at 16 — which does nothing to protect the overwhelming majority of children married in the state. And even that bill barely squeaked by; WY Republicans circulated an email to legislators praising child marriage and the importance of allowing minors to continue marrying, including that the bill “denies parental rights,” which includes the right of parents to “[guide] their own maturing children into the estate of Holy Matrimony.” (Again, WTF?)
• California lawmakers had introduced a strong bill to end child marriage but have since stripped it of all family code statutes. In its current form, it would criminalize arranging a religious or non-legally recognized child marriage — but would keep the legal marriage age at 0. (Once again, WTF?)

We are able to lead the growing national movement to end child marriage — despite the bonkers opposition from legislators — thanks to generous support from allies including Roberts Foundation, Conboy Foundation, Focus for Health, Elluminate, Jewish Women’s Foundation of Metropolitan Chicago — and you!

Our uphill battle to end child marriage in the U.S. — despite pushback from apathetic lawmakers and clueless opponents — was described in the Washington Post on Friday.

“Legislators are looking at this and just kind of yawning,” as our Fraidy Reiss is quoted as saying. “Legislators are not accustomed to making girls a legislative priority.”

The story comes on the heels of the premiere of “Unseen Housewives,” our “trailer” for the show that must not go on: child marriage in the U.S. Please help end child marriage by viewing and sharing “Unseen Housewives.”

This show must NOT go on.

Please take three minutes to watch “Unseen Housewives,” our outrageous, provocative “trailer” about the reality of child marriage in the U.S. — and help us take the video viral, so we can end this nightmare for Jennifer, Patricia, Jenn, Fatemah and the hundreds of thousands of other Americans whose lives have been ripped apart by child marriage.

“Unseen Housewives” premiered on Friday, when more than 300 people joined us in New York City and on Zoom for our hybrid parallel event to the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women. Now help us get everyone in the world to see it too. Watch and share!

More than 300 people joined us in person at the Church Center for the United Nations in New York City and on Zoom today for our hybrid parallel event to the 67th session of the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women. They were among the first people to watch “Unseen Housewives,” our outrageous, provocative “trailer” for a show that must not go on: child marriage in the U.S., and to take a look behind the scenes with its creators and the child marriage survivors featured in it.

If you didn’t get to join us, you can watch a recording of the event below.

We hope to see you tomorrow at the world premiere of “Unseen Housewives,” our outrageous, provocative “trailer” for a show that must NOT go on: child marriage in the U.S.

Join us in New York City or via Zoom for this one-hour event. If you’re not already registered, sign up now.

This is unlike any reality show you’ve seen before.

Meet Jennifer, Patricia, Jenn and Fatemah — four American housewives whose lives are far from glamorous. They are trapped in child marriages, betrayed by their parents and by archaic laws that allowed them to be married off before they are old enough to file for divorce.

“How f****ed up is that?” as Jenn asks.

Be among the first in the world to watch the premiere of our outrageous, provocative “trailer” for a show that must NOT go on. And meet the real-life survivors on whom the “trailer” is based.

Join us Friday from 2:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. ET — in person at the United Nations in New York City or virtually via Zoom. Register here.

The Vermont House of Representatives just voted YES on legislation to end child marriage! The bill now heads to the senate, bringing Vermont one step closer to becoming the eighth U.S. state to end all marriage before 18, without exceptions.

Need one more reason to join us March 10 at our hybrid parallel event to the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women?

Kailash Satyarthi, who won the Nobel Peace Prize for his fearless battle against child exploitation, will deliver the opening remarks!

Also, we assume you want to be among the first people in the world to watch “Unseen Housewives,” our outrageous, provocative new “trailer” for a show that must not go on: child marriage in the U.S. Learn more and register here.

Our founder/executive director, Fraidy Reiss, wrote an op-ed for the CT Mirror today imploring state legislators to pass HB6569, the bill to end child marriage in the state. She noted that many of Connecticut’s neighboring states have already this human rights abuse, setting Connecticut up to become a destination state for child marriage. Read Fraidy’s op-ed here, and if you live in Connecticut, email your legislators now to urge them to pass HB6569 to end child marriage in Connecticut.

As the United Nations launches the 67th session of the Commission on the Status of Women – the world’s largest annual gathering on women’s rights – we at Unchained At Last are launching a hybrid parallel event.

Join us for the premiere of “Unseen Housewives,” our outrageous, provocative “trailer” for a show that must not go on: child marriage in the U.S. Be among the first people in the world to watch the parody trailer and take a look behind the scenes with its creators and the child marriage survivors featured in it.

Can an in-your-face video clip help end child marriage in the 43 U.S. states that still allow it and move the world closer to achieving UN Sustainable Development Goal 5.3? Let’s find out!

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Unseen Housewives: The Shocking “Trailer” That Aims to Cancel America’s Child Marriage Show
An Unchained At Last (Hybrid) Parallel Event
67th Session of the United Nations’ Commission on the Status of Women
10 March 2023
2:30 p.m. ET – 3:30 p.m. ET | 11:30 a.m. PT – 12:30 p.m. PT | 7:30 p.m. GMT – 8:30 p.m. GMT

Featuring:

• Kailash Satyarthi, 2014 Nobel Peace Prize winner for his work against child exploitation
• Fatemah Salem, child marriage survivor featured in “Unseen Housewives”
• Jennifer Bradbury, child marriage survivor featured in “Unseen Housewives”
• Patricia Abatemarco, child marriage survivor featured in “Unseen Housewives”
• Jennifer Brown, child marriage survivor featured in “Unseen Housewives”
• Bruno Guimaraes, Area 23, creator of “Unseen Housewives”
• Jihane Ghostine, Area 23, producer of “Unseen Housewives”
• Houry Geudelekian, NGO CSW/NY and child marriage survivor
• Fraidy Reiss, Unchained At Last and forced marriage survivor

Sponsored by:

• Unchained At Last
• NGO CSW/NY

IN PERSON:
Church Center for the United Nations
777 United Nations Plaza, New York City

VIRTUALLY:
Via Zoom

About Commission on the Status of Women

Each year the UN hosts CSW, the world’s largest annual gathering on women’s rights, in New York City. Representatives of member states, UN entities and approved non-governmental organizations from around the world are invited to attend. The 67^th session of CSW takes place 6 to 17 March 2023, on a hybrid basis, with a priority theme of innovation and technological change and education in the digital age for achieving gender equality.

About Unchained At Last

Unchained is a survivor-led NGO dedicated to ending forced and child marriage in the U.S. through direct services and advocacy – in line with UN Sustainable Development Goal 5.3, which calls for the elimination of child, early and forced marriage by year 2030. Unchained provides crucial legal and social services, always for free, to help individuals in the U.S. escape forced marriages and rebuild their lives, and Unchained pushes relentlessly for social, policy and legal change. Founded in 2011, Unchained has been an Organization in Special Status with the United Nations Economic and Social Council since 2017.

About Area 23 and “Unseen Housewives”

Area 23 is a health advertising agency that conceived of and produced “Unseen Housewives” pro bono to raise awareness of Unchained’s work to end child marriage in the U.S. “Unseen Housewives” is based on the true stories of four of the many American child marriage survivors who have partnered with Unchained to stop this human rights abuse from destroying more lives.