World Policy Institute Presented
Unchained At Last: A Political Salon on Arranged Marriage
Featuring Kavitha Rajagopalan, Fraidy Reiss and Shehnaz Abdeljaber
WHEN: Tuesday, December 3
6:00 PM – 7:30 PM
WHERE: World Policy Institute
108 West 39th Street, Suite 1000
New York City
Tens of thousands of women and girls in the United States – many as young as 15 years of age – are in arranged marriages, particularly in the Jewish, Muslim, Mormon, Sikh, South Asian, and African communities. Many of them have been coerced or forced into their situations, face domestic violence and lack the support and resources that would allow them to leave safely.
Coerced marriages are an under-reported problem that affect both U.S. citizens and migrant women, but they create an especially fragile situation for migrant women, who lack the legal protections, familiarity with the culture and law, and broader societal support that U.S. citizens have. Religious extremism both in the U.S. and abroad, as well as ostracism of migrants and religious minorities, have worsened the problem.
How does the U.S. compare to other countries in the world in dealing with this problem? What can be done to support women in coercive marriages?
World Policy Institute hosted Senior Fellow Kavitha Rajagopalan in conversation with Fraidy Reiss, the founder and executive director of Unchained At Last, who escaped an arranged marriage in a New Jersey Orthodox Jewish enclave, and Shehnaz Abdeljaber, board president of Unchained At Last, a Palestinian woman who took on her family and community to avoid an arranged marriage.
ABOUT THE SPEAKERS
Shehnaz Abdeljaber grew up in a patriarchal community, where she fought to avoid ending up in an arranged marriage when she was 18. Her experiences turned her into a dedicated advocate for human rights, especially as they pertain to children and minorities. Shehnaz is President of the Board at Unchained At Last and serves as the outreach coordinator for the Rutgers University Center for Middle Eastern Studies, where she helps coordinate cultural and educational events involving the Arab and Muslim communities. She previously served on the Commission for New Americans under Governor Jon Corzine. Shehnaz is a graduate of Rutgers University. She is now a graduate student at University of Pennsylvania, where she is pursuing a Master of Liberal Arts degree in Arab/South Asian women’s literature and creative writing.
Fraidy Reiss is the Founder and Executive Director of Unchained At Last, which helps women who want to leave their arranged marriage but are limited by finances, religious law and cultural norms. Fraidy was 19 when her family arranged for her to marry a man who turned out to be violent. But with no education and no job, and a family that refused to help her, she felt trapped. At age 27, Fraidy defied her husband and relatives to become the first person in her family to go to college; she graduated from Rutgers University at age 32 as valedictorian. With her degree in journalism, Fraidy reported for the Asbury Park Press, where her reporting won the second place New Jersey Press Association’s Robert P. Kelly Award for outstanding young journalists in 2007. Fraidy went on to a career as an investigator at Kroll, the world’s largest investigations firm, and then at a private firm in New York. Fraidy also serves on UJA-Federation’s Task Force on Family Violence.
ABOUT THE MODERATOR
Kavitha Rajagopalan is Secretary of the Board at Unchained At Last, a World Policy Institute Senior Fellow and author of Muslims of Metropolis: The Stories of Three Immigrant Families in the West, a narrative nonfiction exploration of integration and identity formation in the urban Muslim diaspora. Her projects include research and advocacy on the causes and consequences of undocumented migration, arranged and forced marriage in America, urban informality and minority access to mainstream financial systems. She writes widely on global migration and diversity and has taught related courses at NYU’s Center for Global Affairs. She is a director at Kroll Advisory Solutions.